Your wedding day is one of the most meaningful days of your life, and while the focus is often on the bride’s preparations, there are plenty of things you can do to make the day even more special—for both of you. Beyond just looking sharp, this guide is about mentally preparing for the day, ensuring you’re present in each moment, and making sure your bride feels deeply loved.

Do you remember the 21st night of September? Cameron and David certainly will—it was the day they began their forever surrounded by love and joy at The Wilds in Bloomington, Indiana. And oh what a memorable and magical day it was.